This was going to be easy. There are only three children--all adults--two spouses, and three grandchildren. And not all of these people were staying 24/7. It was only three days that the house would be full, as well as my heart.
My meal planning is shabby at best. I get ruffled and things get changed, people sleep in and my plans go to pot. Wednesday night was our family's Christmas together. In planning the evening meal, I figured that making the entire meal myself would be a gift, of sorts, to the girls so they would have a night off. Wouldn't a turkey be great with stuffing--easy enough--sweet potato casserole (dessert, really) and green beans and pie. Now the entire idea behind a turkey was so that there would be leftovers for the next day for snacking and dinner. Two meals, at least, in one afternoon of cooking. Even before Wednesday, thing began to unravel. We were needed at a doctor's visit, which was beyond important, on Wednesday afternoon. My daughter, who is far better in the kitchen than I, ended up taking over. Not in the plan. I felt very badly that my idea to give her a break fell completely apart. She even made the pie. At least I did the sweet potatoes and green beans. She chided me later that I was attempting way to much. Maybe I did get out my Superwoman undies. The next night, when I thought we would use the turkey, the other kids called to say they were bringing pizza. It was a good idea--on paper.
Perhaps, underneath my good intentions, was also the desire to show the kids that I really can do stuff. That I may be moving a bit slower, but the abilities are still there, well most of the time.
Families have a way of being even more dysfunctional than usual during the holidays. (Of course, I'm an expert.) We were no exception.
All in all, having the house full did make my heart full. The three little ones seem to enjoy each other, believe it or not! It will be fun to see them grow up together: All just about a year apart.
When the last son left, my heart was a bit sad. The house was quiet again. The holidays were over. A new year was beginning.
Note to self: Burn the Superwoman undies.
"O LORD,
Length of days does not profit me except the days are passed
in thy presence, in thy service, to thy glory....
...I launch my bark on the unknown waters of this year,
with thee, O Father, as my harbour,
thee, O son, at my helm
thee, O Holy Spirit, filling my sails."
--From
The Valley of Vision, New Year